C’est en 2007, lors de ma première expérience dans les ressources humaines, que je tombe sur LA Manager avec qui ça ne passe pas du tout ! Je pourrais vous faire la liste de tout ce que je lui reprochais à l’époque mais le sujet n’est pas là …
A cette même période, ma mère, hypnothérapeute, se passionne pour un outil de profil de personnalité : l’ennéagramme. Assez sceptique et méfiante à l’idée d’être cataloguée, je la laisse tout de même m’exposer ses connaissances et accepte même de servir de cobaye dans le cadre de sa nouvelle formation.
Cela tombe bien car j’ai de quoi raconter mes misères ! Plongée dans une lutte interne pour affronter cette manager quotidiennement, je ne cesse de ressentir de l’énervement, du dégoût et une profonde injustice. Je ne comprends vraiment pas du haut de mes 22 ans comment une personne aussi “mauvaise” peut exercer dans les ressources humaines. Pleine de jugement et de rancoeur, le jour de la rupture arrive ! j’ose lui dire que je ne peux plus la supporter, pas de la bonne manière mais je lui dis et quitte mon poste en mettant en péril ma place à l’Université de la Sorbonne. Ce jour là je saisis vraiment l’expression “la goutte d’eau qui fait déborder le vase” !
Et très vite arrive la révélation ! Ma mère me donne sa vision de la situation via son outil et là BIM prise de conscience !
En fait, je n’ai pas un problème relationnel et cette femme n’est pas aussi odieuse que je le prétends ! Nous avons simplement des modes de fonctionnement différents, qui se dévoilent dans plusieurs aspects de notre collaboration à savoir; le style de communication, la manière de prendre des décisions, notre façon d’analyser, notre rapport au temps et j’en passe.
Quel soulagement ! Quelle fascination ! Une autoroute s’ouvre devant moi ! De nouvelles perspectives pour sortir du jugement, pour grandir, pour comprendre et donc accueillir différemment ! Je découvre un outil, qui permet de mettre des mots et des explications sur 9 profils de personnalités.
Cette période marque à jamais un nouveau départ relationnel. Mon quotidien se transforme en terrain de jeu pour observer, en étant guidée par l’outil et l’expertise de ma mère, ce qui m’évitera de tomber dans certains pièges et comprendre certaines subtilités. Un terrain de jeu pour tester des stratégies d’actions différentes, pour m’adapter à l’autre et rentrer en résonance.
Cet outil est un trésor selon moi, complémentaire aux autres tels que le MBTI, Insight, Belbin… et comme tous les outils de profils de personnalité je recommande une GRANDE VIGILANCE ! Celle de se cacher derrière un chiffre, un acronyme, une couleur et de rester camper sur ses comportements.
Selon moi ces outils sont des moyens ludiques de se connaître, d’observer ses interlocuteurs, de comprendre, d’accueillir avec empathie la différence et donc de mieux interagir.
La clé du succès est bien de garder en tête que :
- L’être humain est bien plus complexe que les profils proposés, nous ne nous résumons pas à ces stéréotypes, ce sont des alertes simplement
- Nous sommes un peu de tous ces profils, il y a certaines prédominances de comportement qui sont essentielles à connaitre
- Et surtout je conseille de sortir de son comportement “favori” pour aller s’adapter à l’autre, à la situation, à l’environnement en mimant les autres profils. Nous en avons la capacité car tous ces modes sont en nous à des degrés différents.
Voilà, je suis donc “piquousée” et utilise l’outil spontanément dans mes analyses, il m’arrive également d’y faire référence pendant mes accompagnements. Si vous souhaitez plus d’informations, je me ferais un plaisir de vous initier. Mon ambition liée à l’outil est de vous aider à agir en conscience avec notre 3 centres de fonctionnements, qui sont la structure de l’outil : l’INSTINCT, les EMOTIONS et le MENTAL. Vous savez maintenant d’où vient le nom IEM Agility.
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